From the Author
Not Tonight, Mr Right is the Chastity Manual for girls who don't read Chastity Manuals.
It's not a religious guidebook (in my mind, I always pictured my readers as the type of women who shout "Jesus!" in their bedrooms, but only when they have a new boyfriend in there too, doing something Tantric).
It's not a Moral Tome, and I'm certainly not nagging on about sex stopping men respecting you in the morning. You know why not? Because we don't want to be respected in the morning. None of us dream of waking up next to a bloke who gives us a manly handshake and mutters, "Nice work. You did a good job with that Vaseline."
We want to be adored in the morning. We want to be loved in the morning. At the very least, we want to be relaxed in the morning. And what's the easiest way of achieving these goals? Not going to bed with a man until you're adored, loved and relaxed first.
It's not Rocket Science, it's Pocket-Rocket Science. Men are biologically ten times likelier than women to hump 'n dump,
especially if the sex was good. (I explain why in the book.) Women can enjoy uncommitted nookie, but only by risking their long-term chances of bonding. (I explain how in the book.) And you WILL have wonderful sex again with a man who worships the ground you lie on. (I explain when in the book.) He won't respect you the next morning - he'll cherish you. I promise. I know this will work for you too. Enjoy! Kate
Not Tonight, Mr Right is a wake-up call to any woman who's ever woken up the Morning After and thought, "Oops." In laugh-out-loud detail, best-selling sex author Kate Taylor explains:
How Oxytocin - the Fatal Attraction hormone - can make women up to ten times more emotionally attached after sex than men;
Why men never expect to get lucky on the third date, or any date;
Why the longer it takes a man to have sex with you, the better he'll' think you are in bed;
How women never look for no-strings sex, despite what we tell ourselves;
That relationships are more fun, easier and longer-lasting when you keep your feet on the ground instead of hooking them round his neck;
That the perfect time to have sex isn't when you think he might slip away, it's when you know he never will.
Reader reviews:
"This book could be your relationship saviour... every gal should read this" Read Original
"And even though casual sex is slightly further down my agenda than re-grouting the shower and filing my tax return, there was something about Taylor's retro-thesis that had the ring of confidence about it" Kathryn Flett, The Observer Read Original
"A wake-up call for any woman who has ever romped the night away with a guy, only to regret it in the morning. Sexpert Kate asks why it is that women fall in love after a night of passion whereas men are just thinking about their next conquest. She takes the reader through a series of tricks of the trade to make sure that when you meet The One, he feels the same way as you. She also explains that it is okay for a girl to say no and gives you the confidence to do so. To the point and very funny, this is a must-read for all women." The Sun Friday 16th February 2007, p.64
